tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5519880166634334103.post9010420064145668185..comments2023-06-11T21:36:17.696+09:30Comments on Anything Kel...: The Great Gender DebateAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08881726731449136425noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5519880166634334103.post-71866290897804682312010-11-27T08:46:50.769+09:302010-11-27T08:46:50.769+09:30Well from a mother who was only ever having two bo...Well from a mother who was only ever having two boys, who now has three girls, I would not go down that path. It's not that I didn't want girls, I just always thought I'd have boys. When I was desperate for a third baby, we got all the usual comments about trying for the boy. It was so far removed from that. I just wanted another baby to love. I think life gives you what you need, not necessarily what you want. I love being a mum to three girls and I would never try for the boy (well short of doing it the old fashioned way *wink*). But If we were to have another baby it would be to enjoy having another healthy happy person in our world regardless of gender.<br /><br />I guess I dabbled to the point of charting due to seeing a naturopath who asked me to chart my cycles so I'm not totally leaving it up to nature but still ...<br /><br />I also have to wonder if these women have ever experienced loss through pregnancy or been close to someone who can't have a baby at all and whether this might change their thinking?<br /><br />Wow! Didn't realise how passionate I was about this but where does it end? You want a smarter baby, one with curly hair instead of straight, one with super model legs? I'm with conservative Britain on this one.<br /><br />And the money being spent surely could be put towards giving an orphaned baby a better life?<br /><br />What is that saying? You don't have to be give birth to be a mother.<br /><br />GREAT POST!cjtatohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08647596319711811125noreply@blogger.com